I worked tirelessly to reunite with my ex. Truthfully I never thought it would happen. He was all over the dating websites I would sign up to see his profile. Phelan got very upset with me he said that I was feeding the negative energy and that I needed to stop. I finally decided to take his advice and withdrew from the online scene. It was not but a few short weeks later that my ex started texting me. Phelan instructed me not to respond. It was very hard not to answer because I wanted to so badly. But it turns out Phelan told me exactly how to play my hand, and I won; we reunited and married.