It is really hard for me to be patient, so I know that I messed up my spells several times. Phelan would constantly tell me to focus and to stay positive, I would do okay for just a little while and then right back to my old ways. In all it took 21 months for my ex to come back to me, I was just about ready to give up and decided to have a communication ritual and a desire my love ritual done, right after I had those rituals done my husband called me and we started talking again, we are now back together and I am so happy that I found Phelan.