I have never hidden who I am.
I am Phelan, the Gay Male Witch, a Third Degree High Priest of the Wiccan Religion, and I have spent much of my life working with people who come to me seeking love, healing, protection, spiritual guidance, and sometimes a second chance with the person they simply cannot forget.
Over the years, I have developed a very large gay and lesbian clientele. I believe one of the reasons is simple, I understand.
Gay and lesbian relationships can carry their own unique challenges. Sometimes there are family pressures, fear, jealousy, outside interference, former lovers, secrecy, distance, or circumstances that make an already complicated relationship even more difficult. When someone comes to me about a same sex relationship, they do not have to explain or defend who they love.
Love is love, and matters of the heart can be incredibly powerful.
Gay Love Spells, Uniting and Reuniting Lovers
I have had tremendous success with gay love spells and rituals designed for uniting and reuniting same sex couples. Some clients come to me because they have met someone and want to strengthen the connection between them. Others come to me after a painful breakup, sometimes after months or even years of separation.
There are also those who tell me, "Phelan, I know this relationship is not finished."
That is when I look deeply into the energy surrounding the relationship.
What caused the separation? Is another person involved? Has jealousy or negativity entered the relationship? Has communication completely stopped? Are there emotional barriers standing between two people who once shared a powerful connection?
These are the things that must be examined before deciding what type of ritual work should be performed.
You Do Not Have to Hide Who You Are
I know there are still gay men and lesbians who hesitate before contacting a spiritual worker about their relationship. Some have been judged before. Others have been made to feel that their relationship is somehow different or less important.
You will not receive that judgment from me.
I am a gay man. I have lived the life. I understand the emotions, the complications, the heartbreak, and the tremendous joy that can come from finding someone you truly love.
When you contact me about a same sex relationship, you can speak openly.
Tell me what happened.
Tell me who you love.
Tell me what went wrong.
Tell me what you want to see happen.
From there, I can determine what spiritual work may be appropriate for your particular situation.
When Love Has Been Torn Apart
Some relationships end quietly. Others are ripped apart by arguments, jealousy, infidelity, outside interference, family, friends, former lovers, or another person deliberately working to come between two people.
Those are very different situations, and they should not all be treated the same way.
My gay love and reuniting work can be customized according to the circumstances surrounding the relationship. Depending upon the situation, the work may focus on reconciliation, communication, removing obstacles, strengthening emotional and sexual attraction, cleansing negativity, protecting the relationship, or helping reopen a connection that has gone cold.
I have worked with gay and lesbian clients from around the world, and some of the most rewarding cases I have handled have involved couples who believed their relationship was completely finished, only to see communication return and the relationship begin moving forward again.
That is why I tell people not to assume that silence always means the end.
Sometimes there is much more happening beneath the surface.
Phelan, The Gay Male Witch
I am proud of who I am, proud of the spiritual path I have followed, and proud that gay and lesbian clients have trusted me with some of the most personal and painful situations in their lives.
If you are trying to unite with someone you love, reunite with a former lover, strengthen an existing relationship, remove negative influences, or protect the love you already have, I am here to listen and determine what type of spiritual work may be appropriate for your situation.
You do not have to be embarrassed.
You do not have to hide your relationship.
And you certainly do not have to apologize for loving someone.
Love has always been one of the greatest forms of magic.
Blessed be,
Phelan
The Gay Male Witch