Phelan my boyfriend and I are now back together, his parents tore us apart because they are religious nuts that can't stand that their son is gay. He is and will always be gay and there is little they can do about that, so they turned their attention on driving a wedge between us and they were successful, that is until you took my case and started helping me out, they backed off and we are now together again, we were split up for over a year. Thank you so very much Phelan.